Intj and intj dating
Though fellows be aware, the INTJ female will typically be direct and not leaving any question if her assessment has resulted in a fail, it will be a polite ‘this has been fun, but we’re not a fit, wish you the best! If the guy makes it past the first few dates, it means the INTJ woman sees potential which kicks off the next month or so (sometimes more! INTJs are super open minded, so this phase isn’t about passing judgement on the other person, it’s about assessing compatibility.
The other thing about INTJs is they are less bothered by superficial things like what he wears, what he does for a living, does he have straight teeth, or other tangible things.
One of the other things I’ve found interesting about the INTJ woman is that she’s typically opposite when it comes to showing her best side.It’s probably important to also know that because an INTJ woman is focused on assessing the guy’s compatibility, she’s typically not doing any of the normal things women are trained to do in the early phases.She’s not trying to get him to like her, she’s not wondering if he likes her, she’s not trying to make him happy or give him a positive date experience.Not to say dating an INTJ woman isn’t fun and exciting, it typically is very engaging because of the pure authenticity she brings – what you see is what you get.She doesn’t subscribe to ‘people put their best foot forward the first few months’ – which means, she’ll hold the guy to that standard as well.